23 Ways To Turn Your Husband To A Lover Boy At Home

You can turn your husband to a lover boy, I mean to say your own lover boy,make his heart melt for you, abandon every other lady and love you irrevocably. All you need to do are these simple things. 

  • Call him pet names – Stop calling your husband Baba Deji, Baba…. 
  • Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the family. Don’t fight with him, don’t challenge his authority.
  • DO not challenge him when he is hurt. Avoid challenging him to do his worst when you hurt him, apologize humbly and get his heart back.
  • Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment, apologise and explain why you behaved the way that annoyed him.
  • Be quick to say “I’m sorry dear” when ever you offend him: If you can not say I am sorry your Marriage will be in a sorry state. I am sorry can end every battle, if you say it quickly, genuinely and humbly.
  • Speak good of him in the presence of his Friends and siblings: His siblings and friends will pass your message across to him.
  • Honor his mother: He is still in love with his mother,stop deceiving yourself, just learn to live with this fact, stop fighting his mother, show her genuine love even if she does not deserve it by your estimation, giving birth to your husband is enough to prove that you must honor her. 
  • Get regular gift and cash for his parents: Insist that he buys gift for his parents,do the same too,he will end up taking care of your parents too.
  • Surprise him with his favorite dish: Cook his best dishes regularly. Men love food, you would win his heart with this
  • Don’t hand him over to your maid: Do not allow the maid to serve him food when you are at home. You are his wife not the maid, if you are careless about this you may lose him to the maid.
  • Royal welcome: Don’t take his return home lightly, welcome him greatly and in a royal way, give him a warm reception, greet him with an embrace when he returns, collect his luggage and help undress him.
  • Use the smile key: The smile of a woman can win men over anytime. Smile more, smile when you look at him and give him occasional pecks when you are out socially.
  • Home Praise: Praise him generously in the presence of his children often, let him hear when you do this, say it also when he is not there your children will tell him.
  • Bath with him: Join him in the shower, bath him, wash him, wash his back, massage him in the process,do this often and see joy in your husband.
  • Love posts: Put love notes in his briefcase, car seat, shirt or suit pocket, you will win another point.
  • Phone love: call just to know how he is doing. Call and tell him that you miss him and that he is the best husband ever.
  • Flash love: Dial his number and on hearing “hello” just tell him “I love you” and switch off, do it often.
  • Early S.x: Wake him up in the morning for a hot s.x before he goes out in the morning. Wake him up by giving him massage, he will wake up and say its my lucky day.
  • Lucky wife: Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your husband that you are a lucky wife.
  • Hug of love: Give him a hug for no reason, just to make him feel loved.
  • Be flirty: Flirt with him,in public when no one is looking,touch him loving,put your hands on his lap, let it go farther than that just make sure nobody is looking, his mind will never stray to any other lady.
  • Pray for him: Always remember to pray for him,commit his heart to God and make him to love you. Pray together and also pray together before going to bed in the evening.
  • Be romantic and sexy: Never allow motherhood kill the girl in you. Be romantic, show him the reason why he must not look at any other lady. Don’t just be his wife be his mistress, be sexy, be his babe, done ever hate sex love it with your husband, celebrate, do it often and never be passive in the bedroom with your husband, be a seducer, yes seduce your husband, if anybody snatches your husband it’s your fault.

Bisi Adewale is the publisher of www.dailyfamily.ng
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What Can We Do To End Child Labor in Nigeria?

UNICEF defines Child labor is work that is mentally, physically, socially or morally dangerous and harmful to children and deprives them of opportunities for schooling and development. According to the International Labour Organization, the number of working children under the age of 14 in Nigeria is estimated at 15 million. These jobs include being street vendors, beggars, car washers or watchers and shoe shiners. Others work as apprentice mechanics, hairdressers and bus conductors while a large number work as domestic servants and farm hands.

Major causes of child labor are widespread poverty, rapid urbanization, breakdown in extended family affiliations, secondary school drop out rates, and lack of enforcement of legal instruments meant to protect children.

Although the main cause of child labor is Poverty, illiteracy also plays a role in Child labor. There are a lot of mothers on Lagos road that are seen begging with their children that are supposed to be in school. In the northern part there are a lot of cases of underage children being given up for marriage.

While some find themselves working because they become the breadwinner in their family either due to the death of their parents or illnesses beyond their control.  In Nigeria the people that are most affected by child labor are girls.

Just last month  16 children were rescued in the state from the various places where they were being used as laborers instead of their being in school in Ekiti State. Recently a 16-year old orphan nearly lost her life following a heavy bleeding consequent upon an incomplete abortion sponsored by her benefactor  where she was working as his house maid.

Just last month also a pregnant mother of two reportedly beat her eight year old house help until the girl died. You would wonder what can an eight year old child that probably can’t even take care of herself do in terms of housework? There are so many more stories that we have not even heard of.

The devastating part to child labor is the fact that it has long lasting effects on the children. Most of this children because they did not get to have adequate education end up as illiterates and drop outs doing odd jobs with no stable income. While most of the girls end up as prostitutes or teenage mothers due to the exposure that they experience everyday, the boys end up as street urchins terrorizing and causing havoc all over the place.

The effect of child labor does not only affect the child, it affects the society in general.  It is already hard enough in the country for people who had access to education not to talk of those without adequate education.

It would shock you to know that in Nigeria there are already laws laid down to protect children called the Child Rights Act that states that:

Buying, selling, hiring or otherwise dealing in children for purpose of begging, hawking, prostitution or for unlawful immoral purposes are made punishable by long terms of imprisonment. Other offences considered grave include sexual abuse, general exploitation which is prejudicial to the welfare of the child, recruitment into the armed forces and the importation /exposure of children to harmful publications. It further preserves the continued application of all criminal law provisions securing the protection of the child whether born or unborn.

The Act mandates parents, guardians, institutions and authorities in whose care children are placed, to provide the necessary guidance, education and training to enable the children live up to these responsibilities.

The Child Right Act (CRA) considers a child as a person below the age of 18 years (SECTION 21 of the CRA). It also states that a child’s best interest should be of utmost priority in any case involving a child (section 1 of the CRA 2003).

Even with the law already laid down it is a wonder that child labor is still very rampant in Nigeria infact you can’t step out of your house in the morning without seeing a child begging or hawking on the road while their counterparts are in school. The question we then have to ask ourselves as a community is what can we do to help and how can we stop child labor in Nigeria?

The first step to putting an end to Child Labor is for us to realize that it is not just up to one person, we are all responsible for putting an end to it. Although we have laws prohibiting child labor in Nigeria, child labor is still on the increase because there is no enforcement and defaulters are not made to face the wrath of the law.


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