You can turn your husband to a lover boy, I mean to say your own lover boy,make his heart melt for you, abandon every other lady and love you irrevocably. All you need to do are these simple things.
- Call him pet names – Stop calling your husband Baba Deji, Baba….
- Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the family. Don’t fight with him, don’t challenge his authority.
- DO not challenge him when he is hurt. Avoid challenging him to do his worst when you hurt him, apologize humbly and get his heart back.
- Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment, apologise and explain why you behaved the way that annoyed him.
- Be quick to say “I’m sorry dear” when ever you offend him: If you can not say I am sorry your Marriage will be in a sorry state. I am sorry can end every battle, if you say it quickly, genuinely and humbly.
- Speak good of him in the presence of his Friends and siblings: His siblings and friends will pass your message across to him.
- Honor his mother: He is still in love with his mother,stop deceiving yourself, just learn to live with this fact, stop fighting his mother, show her genuine love even if she does not deserve it by your estimation, giving birth to your husband is enough to prove that you must honor her.
- Get regular gift and cash for his parents: Insist that he buys gift for his parents,do the same too,he will end up taking care of your parents too.
- Surprise him with his favorite dish: Cook his best dishes regularly. Men love food, you would win his heart with this
- Don’t hand him over to your maid: Do not allow the maid to serve him food when you are at home. You are his wife not the maid, if you are careless about this you may lose him to the maid.
- Royal welcome: Don’t take his return home lightly, welcome him greatly and in a royal way, give him a warm reception, greet him with an embrace when he returns, collect his luggage and help undress him.
- Use the smile key: The smile of a woman can win men over anytime. Smile more, smile when you look at him and give him occasional pecks when you are out socially.
- Home Praise: Praise him generously in the presence of his children often, let him hear when you do this, say it also when he is not there your children will tell him.
- Bath with him: Join him in the shower, bath him, wash him, wash his back, massage him in the process,do this often and see joy in your husband.
- Love posts: Put love notes in his briefcase, car seat, shirt or suit pocket, you will win another point.
- Phone love: call just to know how he is doing. Call and tell him that you miss him and that he is the best husband ever.
- Flash love: Dial his number and on hearing “hello” just tell him “I love you” and switch off, do it often.
- Early S.x: Wake him up in the morning for a hot s.x before he goes out in the morning. Wake him up by giving him massage, he will wake up and say its my lucky day.
- Lucky wife: Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your husband that you are a lucky wife.
- Hug of love: Give him a hug for no reason, just to make him feel loved.
- Be flirty: Flirt with him,in public when no one is looking,touch him loving,put your hands on his lap, let it go farther than that just make sure nobody is looking, his mind will never stray to any other lady.
- Pray for him: Always remember to pray for him,commit his heart to God and make him to love you. Pray together and also pray together before going to bed in the evening.
- Be romantic and sexy: Never allow motherhood kill the girl in you. Be romantic, show him the reason why he must not look at any other lady. Don’t just be his wife be his mistress, be sexy, be his babe, done ever hate sex love it with your husband, celebrate, do it often and never be passive in the bedroom with your husband, be a seducer, yes seduce your husband, if anybody snatches your husband it’s your fault.
Bisi Adewale is the publisher of www.dailyfamily.ng
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